I got up extra early this morning. The plan was to find some inspiration and write a blog post. The problem is that inspiration likes to plays hide ‘n seek…and it can be really good at finding places to hide.
So I considered not posting today. I could easily be the one hiding – behind a big fat excuse (like busyness – that’s a classic!!). Excuses make great hiding spots.
But the OTHER voice in my head ratted me out. It drew attention to my hiding spot.
So here I am, out in the open, nowhere to hide.
Interestingly, I came across an old email this morning from 2012. I was replying to a client who had contacted me to work together for a second time. But then she hesitated and considered backing out – at least for awhile.
This was my reply:
I realized at the end of last year, that there are a few different groups of people — those who are asleep (not even realizing there is “more” out there for them), those who dream of doing more and making change, and those who are truly ready to do what it takes. Since then, I have actually turned down some clients who I didn’t feel were really ready. Sure they wanted change, but they were not willing to commit to the work required. So I must admit that the fact that you are so willing to set this aside again without trying to negotiate makes me wonder if you also are not ready? What brought you to the point of contacting me again? What is it that you hoped you could achieve through coaching? AND what is keeping you from having it (besides excuses)?
Six months from now, you can be in the same place you are today or you can be somewhere different. It’s up to you.
Hmmm…it seems that sometimes I need to take my own advice.